Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Fresh fish! We catch 'em, you buy 'em!


I want to share about our common experiences at the fresh fruit, vegetable and flower markets here. I realize that what we see, taste and walk in are not everyday occurrences in the States so you all might be interested in this topic. Here goes.

As you walk through the narrow aisles at the outdoor markets you'll find roses, gladiolas, mums, daisies, sunflowers, tulips, foxglove, baby roses and an array of many more beautiful flowers I can't identify. These flowers come in every color imaginable and they are dirt cheap. A dozen roses costs less than $4. Would have been perfect for you guys around Valentine's Day! I keep the apartment decorated with these gorgeous flowers.

After the flowers you'll find fruit. Typically you can get apples, cherries, pears, oranges, bananas, tomatoes (they're with the fruit here), grapes, water pears (never eaten these in the States), starfruit (never eaten in the States), watermelon, cantaloupe, kiwi, strawberries as of late because they're in season, cherry tomatoes, plums, etc. Like the flowers, the fruit is very cheap. The apples stay fresh for a remarkably long time. I can keep apples for over two weeks without the freshness being lost! I don't know how this is possible because the fresh fruit markets don't use preservatives.

Then you have the vegetables. The vegetables are comprised mainly of cucumbers, green beans, cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower, eggplant, peppers of all [normal] colors, and loads of greens that I can't identify. I've bought really good lettuce here and then some weird leaves of stuff that taste pretty good. The vegetable section is full of the greens. It's quite an appealing section of the market.

Next you'll find meat from every animal including the normal beef, pork and chicken along with a few exciting options such as dog, rat, turtle and duck. I am able to identify the unordinary meats because the heads are still on the turtles and ducks, and the tails are on the dogs and rats. I'm not joking. Rats are rare mind you, but still around. Every part of the animal is sold, and I mean every: kidneys, intestines, fat, livers, tongues, feet, hearts and a few other unidentifiable parts. They hang the meat at eye-level so you're sure not to miss the skinned chickens. They break their necks most of the time because the heads are eaten, too. I've had chicken heads served to me here. In Africa we had chicken feet so the chickens aren't too much of shock. However, the rest are.

One more thing about meat in China. (This is really gross so if you have a weak stomach don't read this part.) In some parts of China they serve monkey brains as a delicacy........while the monkey is still alive. I'm NOT making this up, promise. Several reliable sources have told me they will put a monkey through a hole in the table, restrain him so he cannot move, cut off the top part of his head and eat the brains while he's still alive. One girl discovered this when she felt something kick her under the table and found monkey legs flailing at her. Again, I promise I'm not making this up. TIC, no doubt!

Now on to a less gross part of the market yet potentially gross at the same time...the seafood bit. Fish swim in shallow Styrofoam containers. I don't know much about fish sadly, but there are at least ten different types to be bought. There are live turtles available in this part of the market along with live beetles and scorpions (not seafood, but sold in that section). Perhaps the most unnerving part of the market is the live eels section. Live eels swim in the shallow Styrofoam containers like the fish. You can buy live eels at Wal-Mart, but they are usually in large glass tanks. In the market they are HUGE. I thought they were snakes for the longest time, but the others assure me they are eels. I've seen some at least two feet long. Maybe you all don't think that's very big, but people actually take these home in a bag while they're still squirming, fry them and eat them. If the size doesn't freak you out, the quantity of eels will. There are hundreds swimming, or vegetating really, in these shallow containers. I'll try to post a picture. Last time it didn't work, but I'll try again so you all can see the situation more clearly.

Before you exit the market you can find bowls, spoons and oil to cook your treasures in, peanut butter if you haven't found something to satisfy your craving (or if you've lost your appetite for anything other than American staples) and coat hangers to dry your coat on since it can be very wet and nasty in the markets. I hope you've enjoyed your tour of a Chinese market. Don't slip on the way out and be glad you aren't really here to fully appreciate the many stenches that accompany the experience! Zai jian!

My three-year old can speak Japanese, Korean, Chinese and English. You were saying little Johnny can feed himself now? How nice.

Recently I bought a collection of Tchaikovsky's works which I play in my room every morning to soothe my soul and relax my students although the Swan Lake music does get a tad exciting. There's just something very pleasing about being serenaded by Tchaikovsky ballets as I walk into my classroom. What's even cooler is having my children repeat the name, "Tchaikovsky" after me. My kids are so smart. Hence the name of the post. I have a set of twins who actually can speak four languages at age three, for real.

Monday, February 25, 2008

Ain't no sunshine when she's gone...

The sun has disappeared from Dongguan until April I've been told. It rained all weekend giving me good reason to break out my cool rain boots I bought while I was home. When I put them on I told Rachel I looked like I needed to go milk Bertha the cow while Ma was cookin breakfast and Pa was mendin' fence. My feet and pants are kept dry though so praise the L-rd for practical AND comfortable shoes!

Speaking of Rachel, we had a lot of laughs this weekend. The rain seems to put us in witty moods. It was nice hanging out with her. We usually go our separate ways, but perhaps that will change. I hope it does.

I'm not sure if I've posted about our Saturday night study of Acts yet. It's chiefly native English speakers sharing what the L-rd showed them over the past week while reading the assigned chapter of Acts. Each week I'm challenged by other people's views, especially concerning the Holy Spirit (we are reading Acts afterall). It's very encouraging to be in a community of older believers and to learn from them. That's an answered pr-yer. Acts is an especially relevant book for us here in China because we are starting ch-rches. Our studies take us in many directions, but we learn more and more of how to be the body amongst ourselves and when reaching out. Cultural barriers present problems we have no answer to, but He has revealed many things through Acts.

School is going well. Today was a rough day. Alex hit Maple twice and I put him in time out so many times I lost count. A sweet part of the day occured when Shin, one of the Japanese twins who could possibly be my favorite, woke up from his nap and cried until they brought him to me. He just held on to me as I comforted him after a nightmare. What a precious moment. Speaking of the twins, they just bounded in my door saying "I want to stay here, Miss La-Ree" even though it's time for them to go home. *heart melts*

Well, it's definitely Monday. I'm wiped out. Here's to finding sunshine inside when it's raining outside.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Mrs. La-Ree gets a black eye

I have a three year old named Alex who just cannot seem to understand the concept of keeping his hands to himself. Everyday, without fail, Alex is in time-out AT LEAST five times for hitting his peers or a teacher. And everyday I rack my brain trying to crack the code that would make him stop hitting. This isn't a new occurence, nor a waning one. He has hit on a daily basis since he began at Eton House in September.

Today's attempt at stilling his hands involved feigning a fight in which I received a black eye, compliments of body tatoo markers. Miss Mikel's smack sent me crying out of the room. While I was in the bathroom creating the appearance of a black eye, the other teachers explained that it's not nice to hit and sent Miss Mikel to time-out. I came back in, shocking the students with my black eye, and they listened intently for the rest of the lesson. I thought the trick had worked.

Little did I know a few hours later not only would my skit backfire, but it would give Mr. Alex a new idea. During the afternoon recess he hit Miss Anna (he has hit other teachers, just not her until today). When asksed why he hit Miss Anna he responded, "Well Miss Mikel hit Miss LaRee!" Needless to say, I'll keep looking for the key that locks Alex's hands.

All of that aside, it was a great day. It's been great being back with my boys. A lot of the children ran to me yesterday morning. We all missed each other a bit I think.

I gave Leo chewing gum for the first time today. It was precious. He chewed it with his mouth open while smiling. I asked him, "Hao bu hao?" which means good not good? He didn't respond for a few seconds but kept smiling. Eventually he shook his head. He wouldn't stop chewing he liked it so much. He giggled and giggled after a bit. It was wonderful. I can't imagine what being a mother will be like. I wouldn't trade moments like these for anything in the world and they aren't even my own children. It is deeply rewarding to be teaching these children.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

dog anyone?

I saw dog for sale tonight at the grocery store. TIC.

Friday, February 15, 2008

waiting...

I made it back safely! I was going crazy on the flight back. For some reason I couldn't sleep. Let's hear it for being up for almost 48 hours straight!

It's been a good day back thus far. Two girls were saved tonight! I'm so excited to see what He's going to do this last half of the year. He's always working and I'm just glad I'm experiencing it firsthand.

It's not as bitter cold as when I left, but it's still chilly.

I titled this post "waiting" because that's where I am. I came back to China with more questions circling me than when I left. I'm most assuredly in a place of waiting in many areas of my life. I'm waiting to see if I should stay in China another year, if I'll be in Africa somewhat soon, etc. There's a verse that says, "Wait on the L-rd...and He will strengthen your heart." (Psalm 27:14) I have a bad attitude about waiting some days, but I enjoy being strengthened at the same time. What an amazing time. The journey to what He's preparing is indeed worth it. I can only think of His love when I think of this waiting period. He's being patient with me, teaching me lessons to prepare me for what He has in store for me. I love that in His sovereignty He allows me to learn the lessons instead of giving me what I want...or worse, what I deserve. I love that He is a G-d we can trust wholeheartedly, without reservation, without doubt.

"let not thy heart be hasty...better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof, and the patient in spirit than the proud in spirit"

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

It's always better when we're together...

I'm sitting in my living room in the great state of West Virginia at the moment feeling much like I did six months ago when I left for China the first time. In case you didn't hear, I was blessed to come home during the Chinese New Year break and surprise my family. My brother-in-law and I devised a scheme, complete with secret agent names, which blew the socks off of my family members. He told my sister he had to pick up an international student from the airport for his job as an admissions counselor at Concord University. She bought it completely and rode along with him to the airport. As she held a sign with the supposed Chinese girl's name on it, I peeped around the corner and ran to her. After she recovered, my brother-in-law and I divulged the plot. From there we called my parents. They were equally excited. It was a good day to say the least.

The past two weeks have been good as well. I was fortunate enough to see some friends I haven't seen since last May as well as make a few new friends. I'm sorry I didn't get to see everyone, but July will be that much sweeter.

I came home to surprise my family, but I also came home to figure out where the L0rd would have me next year. I'm afraid I'm leaving even more unsure of His plan though. At the same time, I'm leaving with much more excitement of the things to come these last six months of the year. He's opened my eyes to new opportunities and changed my attitude as a whole. I'm going back fighting. I can't wait to see what He's going to do before July.

Stayed tuned...we serve a big G-d who is going to do mighty things....please join me in pr-ying.